Sinographs 102 · Chapter 13

Like and alike

How does a language with no “-er” and no “more” compare things? With verbs of likeness: 如 and 若, to be like — and negated, 不如, to be not-as-good-as, the classical comparative. 同 says the same; 好 loves; 善 is the good itself; and 長 is the long (read cháng) and the grown (read zhǎng):

SignKeySaysMeansHow to see it
如likerú to be like; if woman 女 and mouth 口 — the old lists' account of assenting, gone to likeness
好fondhào to love; good woman 女 and child 子 side by side — what is dear, loved
若as-ifruò to be like; if a kneeling figure smoothing long hair — yielding, going along; hence "like"
同sametóng same, together a cover held over a mouth 口 — many mouths under one roof, speaking as one
善goodshàn good; good at the sheep-sign over speech — words gentle as the flock
長longcháng long; to grow a long-haired elder on a staff — the hair is the length

好 you have met as a graph; its verb reading hào, “to love,” is this chapter’s key. 如 doubles as “if” at a clause’s head — likeness and supposition were one thought.

Not as good as

The classical comparative is a ladder of 不如, and its most quoted rungs are about learning itself:

Analects 6.20. urn:nabu:kanripo:KR1h0004:006:26a · license: attribution.

The highest good is like water

若 opens the Laozi’s most quoted four characters — and the line that explains them:

水善▢萬物而不▢。shuǐ shàn lì wàn wù ér bù zhēng"water is good to all ten thousand things — and does not contend" — it helps everything, fights nothing, and settles in the low places everyone else avoids. Here 善 works as "good at, good to." The boxes are "benefit" and "contend"
Laozi 8, the opening. urn:nabu:kanripo:KR5c0057:008:1a · license: attribution.

What to do about it

如 in its odd, ancient idiom 如…何, “what is to be done about…”:

人而不仁,如▢何?rén ér bù rén, rú lǐ hé"a person without humaneness — what are the rituals to him?" — ceremony performed by someone hollow is just choreography; the form cannot save the substance. The box is "ritual"
Analects 3.3. urn:nabu:kanripo:KR1h0004:003:3a · license: attribution.

Same cloak, same wanting

同 takes the soldiers’ oath, and 善 answers a frightened ruler:

Odes, "No clothes?" and Analects 12.19. urn:nabu:kanripo:KR1c0001:011:44a · license: attribution.

Where this leaves you

Likeness, preference, and the comparative ladder — the language compares by verb, not by ending. Two chapters remain: everything counted, and the way things follow.